Being happy alone is not easy at all, but if you can’t be happy on your own, you’re unlikely to be happy in a relationship.  If You are alone because it is your choice, below we have 5 signs that you are comfortable when you are single.

1. You are alone because you do not want to agree to less than you deserve.

You still haven’t found a partner who has already completely won and who has his “self”. You do not need someone to confirm what you already know, and that is that you are an amazing, beautiful and caring person. You need to work on yourself before you can find a partner. You will not set high standards for others if you cannot meet them yourself. Dedicating yourself is always the right thing and what you need and deserve, and you often don’t have the time to do it, which makes you feel bad. Make the most of this time to work on yourself to become the best version of yourself.

2. You realize that you are always attached to emotionally unavailable partners

so take a break from everything. You have yet to meet a person with whom you would think “being with her is better than being alone”.

3. You are solo because you have everything that makes you happy

and you are content with yourself. Honestly, you are too lazy, and relationships require a lot of effort. You don’t send messages, you don’t call. You start talking to a person you like, and then you realize that a lot of effort needs to be put into it, and more than you’re willing to do so you just give up.

4. Now you know something you didn’t know before

you are picky now. You are currently focused only on yourself, on your emotional and spiritual growth. You don’t plan to be solo forever, but you don’t want to push anything. You want control over your life and money. Being alone means you don’t have to constantly explain what you’re spending your time and money on. Every time you go out with someone – they are not serious people but act like children. It’s hard to find someone who has learned from their love past. Also, it is difficult to find someone who knows what he wants and will not run away as soon as the first problems appear.

5. Stronger friendships

Makes sense. You have someone so you don’t feel so much need to call all your friends and acquaintances because your partner will listen to everything you have to say. But being single doesn’t mean being lonely. When you’re single, you’ll try to avoid loneliness so you’ll strengthen ties with friends and family. Here are some ideas on how to use your time alone.

We all fall, we shoot, we make mistakes. But we are also growing. We transcend. We heal. You don’t have to and it’s not written for you to be a lifelong single. Unless, of course, it’s your decision and you don’t feel good in that skin. Allow yourself to develop as a single into a quality partner. And do not be afraid when you meet your soulmate.