The research conducted by the DoULike.com team includes a survey of 2011 people who shared the diversity of opinions on dating between men and women. Therefore, the focus of the study is to ascertain how the two sexes perceive the success of the first date and how it influences their decision on the second date. It will focus on Expectations, Concerns, and Deal-Breakers and seek insight into how many men and women look at the initial stages of dating.
Top 10 Interesting Statistics About Second Date for 2024
- 51.38% of men and 34.21% of women agreed that the first date went well and were willing to go on a second date
- 32.46% of women and 22.94% of men want to get to know their date better when they go on a second date.
- 17.44% of men and only 8.77% of women’s primary expectation for a second date is physical chemistry.
- 31.19% of men are influenced by physical attraction when agreeing to a second date, while 11.40% of women feel the same.
- 39.45% of men and 37.72% of women consider the enjoyment of the first date as a key factor in deciding on a second date.
- 39.47% of women and 25.69% of men look for verbal cues (such as expressing interest and asking personal questions) to determine if the other person is interested in a second date
- 30.19% of men are concerned about the fear of rejection compared to 12.28% of women when considering a second date.
- 51.75% of women and 24.77% of men cite disrespectful or rude behavior as a dealbreaker, a factor that would prevent them from agreeing to a second date.
- 40.37% of men and 38.6% of women are going on a second date to find a long-term relationship.
- 34.86% of men and 23.69% of women would agree to a second date if the first date were rated 6
Understanding Expectations
What Does a Second Date Mean?
- 34.21% of women believe that the first date went well, but 32.46% want to get to know him better.
- Instead, 51.38% of men said that the first date went well.
- Barely 3.51% of women and 4.19% of men voted that they want to test the chemistry between them.
| Women | Men |
| The first date went well | 34.21% | 51.38% |
| I’m attracted to him/her | 13.16% | 16.51% |
| I want to get to know him/him better | 32.46% | 22.94% |
| I want to test the chemistry between us | 3.51% | 4.19% |
| I may still be testing the water | 16.66% | 4.98% |
What is your primary expectation for a second date?
- 50% of women believe that it is to get to know each other better, and only 8.77% of them believe that it is to see if there’s physical chemistry.
- 54.13% of men consider getting to know each other better as a primary expectation for a second date.
- Only 5.50% of men said to assess the potential for a relationship.
| Women | Men |
| To get to know each other better | 50.00% | 54.13% |
| To see if there’s physical chemistry | 8.77% | 17.44% |
| To discuss shared interests and values | 15.79% | 10.09% |
| To have a fun and enjoyable time | 14.91% | 12.84% |
| To assess the potential for a relationship | 10.53% | 5.50% |
Identifying Decision Factors
What factors influence your decision to agree to a second date?
- 37.72% of women and 39.45% of men chose the enjoyment of the first date as a key factor.
- Barely 11.40% of women said that it is physical attraction, compared to 31.19% of men.
- Only 6.14% of women and 3.67% of men voted for a feeling of mutual respect and understanding.
| Women | Men |
| Physical attraction | 11.40% | 31.19% |
| Enjoyment of the first date | 37.72% | 39.45% |
| Common interests and values | 19.30% | 10.09% |
| Good conversation and communication | 25.44% | 15.60% |
| A feeling of mutual respect and understanding | 6.14% | 3.67% |
Assessing Signs of Interest
What signs do you look for to determine if a man is interested in a second date?
- Both 54.13% of men and 33.33% of women agree that positive body language is a key indicator.
- Women, 39.47%, place a higher emphasis on verbal cues compared to 25.69% of men.
- Only 5.26% of women and 2.75% of men look for physical touch as a sign of interest, making it the least cited indicator by both genders.
| Women | Men |
| Positive body language (e.g., eye contact, smiles) | 33.33% | 54.13% |
| Verbal cues (e.g., expressing interest, asking personal questions) | 39.47% | 25.69% |
| Making plans for the future | 14.91% | 12.84% |
| Compliments and flattery | 7.03% | 4.59% |
| Physical touch (e.g., hand-holding, hugging) | 5.26% | 2.75% |
Addressing Concerns
What concerns or anxieties do you have about going on a second date?
- 47.37% of women are concerned about the other person’s intentions, compared to 32.2% of men.
- 30.19% of men are more likely to fear rejection than 12.28% of women.
- Only 11.4% of women and 9.17% of men feel pressure to impress, which is relatively low for both genders.
| Women | Men |
| Fear of rejection | 12.28% | 30.19% |
| Uncertainty about the other person’s intentions | 47.37% | 32.20% |
| Pressure to impress | 11.40% | 9.17% |
| Concerns about physical intimacy | 14.91% | 16.51% |
| Worry about running out of things to talk about | 14.04% | 11.93% |
Evaluating the Impact of First Dates
How much does the first date’s success influence your decision to go on a second date? (Scale of 1-10)
- 23.69% of women and 34.86% of men indicated that 6 points mark the first date’s success.
| Points | Women | Men |
| 1 | 2.63% | 1.84% |
| 2 | 6.04% | 9.18% |
| 3 | 9.65% | 14.68% |
| 4 | 14.04% | 18.35% |
| 5 | 20.18% | 25.69% |
| 6 | 23.69% | 34.86% |
| 7 | 38.60% | 42.20% |
| 8 | 65.79% | 56.88% |
| 9 | 82.46% | 80.73% |
| 10 | 100.00% | 100.00% |
Recognizing Dealbreakers
What dealbreaker would prevent you from agreeing to a second date?
- Both 51.75% of women consider disrespectful or rude behavior a significant dealbreaker, compared to 24.77% of men, which is less than half the rate of women.
- Only 5.26% of women and 3.67% of men see incompatible lifestyles as a dealbreaker.
- 25.69% of men cite physical attraction as a dealbreaker, compared to 13.16% of women.
- 14.72% of women and 23.85% of men consider different values or goals a dealbreaker.
| Women | Men |
| Lack of physical attraction | 13.16% | 25.69% |
| Poor communication or conversation | 15.11% | 22.02% |
| Different values or goals | 14.72% | 23.85% |
| Disrespectful or rude behavior | 51.75% | 24.77% |
| Incompatible lifestyles | 5.26% | 3.67% |
Exploring Dating Goals
What are your main goals for dating at this stage?
- 38.6% of women and 40.37% of men’s primary goal is to find a long-term relationship.
- Only 9.65% of women and 7.34% of men seek short-term fun and excitement.
| Women | Men |
| Finding a long-term relationship | 38.60% | 40.37% |
| Enjoying casual dating and meeting new people | 19.30% | 23.85% |
| Looking for short-term fun and excitement | 9.65% | 7.34% |
| Seeking companionship and friendship | 14.91% | 11.01% |
| Open to whatever happens | 17.54% | 17.43% |
Methodology
This survey, commissioned by DoULike.com, was conducted using SurveyMonkey.com. It obtained answers from 2,011 people, offering a comprehensive picture of dating attitudes and practices. Online data collection was conducted between June 30, 2024, and July 4, 2024. This period allowed various participants to provide their perspectives, guaranteeing a thorough grasp of modern dating dynamics.
Conclusion
Understanding these varied viewpoints can help bridge gaps in communication and expectations. Remember that dating is a journey of discovery, whether navigating the thrill of your first date or considering the possibilities of a second one. Accept the process, have an open mind, and allow these realizations to lead you to more meaningful and sincere relationships. Every date is a chance to develop personally and learn new things, which opens doors to deeper connections.
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